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Mar. 4th, 2006 05:26 pmI have been realizing that I have a superstitious fear that if I acknowledge something good, that thing will then be taken away from me. (This is probably *why* my lj often sounds to me far, far more negative than I want it to be, or than I see myself as living in the world.)
It's a silly superstition, one that seems to detract from the joy in the world, rather than add to it.
My life is very good and wonderful. I am blessed with so much, but the way I speak seems often not to reflect it. I want to way I speak and write to reflect the very real appreciation I do have of all that is so very marvelous around me.
One immediate thing I can do to try to change this in myself, is try to post something good in my lj every day. I suspect that it may mostly take the form of things for which I am grateful, as those are both immensely easy to think of and rather scary to write.
Edit for clarity: The something good will probably NOT generally be in the format of "this is something good today", as I suspect that will rapidly come to annoy me.
It's a silly superstition, one that seems to detract from the joy in the world, rather than add to it.
My life is very good and wonderful. I am blessed with so much, but the way I speak seems often not to reflect it. I want to way I speak and write to reflect the very real appreciation I do have of all that is so very marvelous around me.
One immediate thing I can do to try to change this in myself, is try to post something good in my lj every day. I suspect that it may mostly take the form of things for which I am grateful, as those are both immensely easy to think of and rather scary to write.
Edit for clarity: The something good will probably NOT generally be in the format of "this is something good today", as I suspect that will rapidly come to annoy me.