Clearly from what you are saying you didn't *intend* it to sound mean spirited, and I'm sorry if I sounded really cranky. The way it was written felt like you were saying "I am glad you are suffering", and that is why I found it kind of hurtful, (especially as I was trying to say that I always knew and respected that this was a very real issue for a lot of people and now I feel like I have a deeper understanding).
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Date: 2014-03-23 10:39 am (UTC)